Men More Likely to Leave a Sick Wife?
According to a recent article in the New York Times they are.
Dr. Marc Chamberlain, a Seattle oncologist, noticed a trend among his patients – that men dealing with brain cancer received a lot of support from their wives, while women with the same disease were more frequently going it alone, having faced a divorce or separation following their diagnosis.
Chamberlain, along with Dr. Michael J. Glantz of the University of Utah’s Huntsman Cancer Institute, began a study of 515 patients who were diagnosed with either brain tumors or multiple sclerosis between 2001 and 2006.
According to the New York Times, women in the study were more likely to face separation or divorce than men who were diagnosed with the same conditions.
According to a report published in the journal Cancer, only about 12 percent of the patients ended up dealing with separation or divorce – which is comparable to the divorce rate of the overall population.
The noticable difference in divorce is shown when the study is broken down by sex. Three percent of men reported divorce or separation after diagnosis, while 21 percent of women with the same diagnosis reported separation or divorce.
According to the report in Cancer, it is not known whether the separations reported were caused primarily by the diagnosis of illness, or if the couples who reported divorce were previously having marital problems.
In couples that are happy pre-diagnosis, it appears that men are more likely to leave their sick wives than women are to leave their sick husbands.
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November 22nd, 2009 at 4:14 am
Icant uderstand why a person would leave a sick spouse my wife has had heart attacks 2times cancer, pankcreatits, knee replacement h1ni blood infections and i love her so much i can only take care of her and love her. Iam off work with an injury for 2 years now and feel lucky to have the time to spend with her as she will not be around much longer i have seen her go from beening very strong to frail it is hard to see her like this but love will over come this TILL DEATH DO US PART
November 23rd, 2009 at 1:01 am
You are so unusual. I wish you I had a husband like you… Mine has said he’d leave me if I was ill…. Perhaps I should leave him and look for someone like you. Bless your wife. I hope she recovers.
December 14th, 2009 at 7:47 pm
Thorough and to the point, thanks.
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December 15th, 2009 at 7:54 pm
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