Comments on: Maryland Considers Sexless Divorce Law

By: Ronald

Ronald — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 17:42:13 +0000

I think this is a great law. I live in Colorado and wish this state would start some thing like this. One change that I would make, we are in our late 60s and have a clause if over 65 live together as long as we would like. Because niether one of us can survive money wise. We get by now on S.S. & small pensions

By: Ed Howard

Ed Howard — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 21:01:19 +0000

Maryland law is a life sentance. It is real simple get off the puritan law. Divorce is not a crime in Maryland. When the parties that are married say they want a divorce grant the divorce, divide the stuff that matters and each go on their own way. The state is in it for the money and so are the attorneys so this change will be fought with vigor from many law groups. Maryland divorce laws are a joke compared to other states such as Texas and Florida. Child support and the wellbeing of the child if any children are involved is the MAIN issue. Maryland court can’t even get that right! The proof of what I am saying is in reading the newspaper in Montgomery County fathers have gone so far as to kill their kids to keep them from the other spouse in 2006 and 2008. One spouse or the other may use the child to get Use and Possession for three years and then further run up huge legal bills debating visitation that is granted or not and exactly when to pick up or drop of the children…..etc. I can fill this blog from the faults of Maryland courts and the “system” they use. It only benefits the attorneys because a married couple with assets will be giving a large percentage of them over in legal fees one way or another cause that is how Maryland likes it. I personnally would advise anyone who wants a divorce to move out of the state of Maryland become a resident of Texas, ca, or Fl and then file from that state keeping the case out of Maryland forever. Until some major shake up of the family law division of each county is conducted from a federal or other agency the bs and wrongs in Maryland will continue to mount along with the cost of divorce from that state. It is a not a reasonable expectation that you will be treated fair in a divorce in Maryland even with “the best” attorney on your side. YOU need to do your own homework and make sure that what is being don for you is RIGHT and correctly worded at all times. Take no unclear written documents as the law. MAKE an appeal immediately if you see an error allowed by a judge on a form or order. The judge in Maryland is not up for prosecution by you remember that. Your attorney may be though for not correcting it only if you point it out immediately; not weeks or months later.

By: Yeya

Yeya — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 15:18:03 +0000

The state of MD does not require a couple to wait a year or two before getting married, nor does it impose certain requirements for granting a marriage certificate along with the waiting period. It should not, therefore, impose any requirements or waiting period before granting a divorce. This is especially applicable in the case of those parties who have mutually consented to a divorce and are able to come to an agreement without engaging the court’s time in a protracted battle (i.e., no-fault divorce). Furthermore, it is none of the court’s business of what goes on or does not go on in a couple’s bedroom (i.e., the sex issue), nor the state of their relationship. If the couple, as mature adults, have decided they no longer want to be together, then the court has no business in “playing big brother”, or marriage counselor, or advisor, in attempting to keep the couple together. Maryland is stomping on citizens private affairs and interferring with their “pursuit of happiness”.