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December 13th, 2013

Utah Divorce Class Proposal

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For parents going through a divorce, Utah currently has a state mandated, in-person, divorce orientation course.

The belief of many is that when someone files for divorce, divorce is inevitable. The belief of some is that there is hope to salvage some marriages.

Alan Hawkins, a Brigham Young University professor, teaches the state mandated class in Utah and believes that 10-20% of marriages which result in divorce petitions have a “reasonable possibility of repairing the relationship and being able to preserve family stability.”

The Utah Legislature is currently looking at a proposal that would move up the required divorce orientation course in the divorce process, placing it before the actual filing of the petition.

This proposal is getting a lot of negative feedback and many issues are coming to light that need to be considered.

The biggest issue is the issue of open courts in which the Constitution says out right that everyone is entitled to the courts.

An exception to this process is being proposed for victims of domestic violence. A court or police order, or other evidence of domestic violence, will waive the required course.

This is the third time Rep. Jim Nielson is trying to advance this legislation.

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November 8th, 2013

Texas Supreme Court Starts to Hear Cases Involving Same Sex Divorce

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The Texas Supreme Court has started to hear cases that could determine the fate of same-sex couples looking to get a divorce in the Lone Star State, according to a report from the Dallas Morning News.

Sources say the complication arises from the state’s ban on gay marriage, which remains in effect in Texas and states that marriage can only be between one man and one woman.

Several gay couples, however, have married in other states, and then moved to Texas. So the issue is whether these couples will be able to obtain a divorce in their adopted state.

And the issue was confused in recent years after two appellate courts reached contradictory conclusions, sending the complicated issue to the state’s highest court for resolution this week.

According to reports, in 2010, the Third Court of Appeals in Austin ruled that the state’s attorney general had no jurisdiction in its case, and allowed a lesbian couple to divorce. The Fifth Court of Appeals in Dallas, however, stated that a gay couple in Dallas could not legally file for divorce under Texas law.

According to James Scheske, the divorce attorney representing the same-sex couples in the Texas Supreme Court, the cases are about “divorce and equality. He also says the contrary Dallas ruling “forecloses my client’s constitutional right to petition for divorce in his state of residency and thereby violates his rights under the 14th Amendment.”

Also, Sheske noted in a recent court hearing that if the state’s attorney general, who is arguing against the same-sex couples, prevails, the lesbian couple in Austin will be forced to remarry four years after their divorce.

But the same-sex couples have received strong opposition from the state. Sources say Deputy Attorney General James Blacklock argued in court that all same-sex marriages are void and unenforceable in Texas, regardless of the state of their origin.

“Texas law does not recognize those marriages,” said Blackock in court this week. “It is void for all purposes in Texas.”

The issue of same-sex divorce is rapidly becoming a topic of national conversation, especially after the U.S. Supreme Court’s recent decision to overturn the federal Defense of Marriage Act, which prevented same-sex couples who married in other states from receiving federal benefits.

Each state still has the right to define marriage as it sees fit, but states that do legalize gay marriage effectively have the support of the federal government after the recent Supreme Court decision.

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July 3rd, 2013

California Supreme Court Issues Key Decision on Divorce and Pensions

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The California Supreme Court ruled this week that a man who served in the military before marriage doesn’t have to share certain funds earned during the marriage during a divorce, according to a report from the San Francisco Chronicle.


According to reports, the court ruled that a man who serves in the military before marriage, and then later uses funds jointly owned with his spouse to purchase military-service credits that increase his future pension payments, doesn’t have to share those payments with his spouse after a divorce.

Sources say the landmark case, which involved Timothy and Julie Green, could change the way pensions are distributed during a divorce, particularly for state workers in California.

The Greens, who were married in 1992, filed for divorce in 2008. Before the two married, Timothy Green served for four years with the Air Force, and then started working as a firefighter in California for the Alameda County Fire Department.

Reports indicate that the California Public Employees’ Retirement System (CalPERS), which operates Timothy Green’s retirement fund, allows users to purchase credits for previous public service that adds to their pensions.

Green took advantage of this program in 2002, and started making payments on a 15-year installment plan. Sources say he paid roughly $11,000 into the fund before filing for divorce.

The problem, however, is that the funds used to purchase the pension credits were jointly owned by Julie Green, who argued in court that she should receive a portion of the future pension increase owed to her husband.

An appellate court agreed with Julie Green, ruling that she could share the pension increase, but the state’s highest court overruled that decision this week.

In a unanimous decision, the court ruled that Timothy Green “rendered his military service before the marriage, making the military service credit his separate property,” according to reports.

The former wife, though, is still entitled to be paid half the amount her husband paid into the system, which amounts to a little more than $6,000, sources say.

One justice noted that the case may have had a different result if Timothy and Julie Green had married after the husband accepted a job as a firefighter, but under the laws of this community property state, all seven justices agreed with the majority decision.

And while the case seems like a relatively mundane dispute between a single couple, sources expect the decision to have widespread consequences for couples looking to divorce in California.

In particular, the decision may have an impact on every divorce involving an employee whose pension is controlled by the California Public Employees’ Retirement System or the State Teachers’ Retirement System, sources say.

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May 31st, 2013

Florida Governor Rejects Divorce Law Eliminating Permanent Alimony

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Rick Scott, the governor of Florida, rejected a bill this week that would have eliminated the possibility of permanent alimony for spouses getting a divorce in the Sunshine State, according to a Fox News report.

If Scott had failed to take action on the bill, it would have automatically become law, so the bill’s supporters can fairly pin the blame for the bill’s failure on the governor.


Despite disappointment from the bill’s proponents, only four other states have eliminated permanent alimony, so the passage of the measure was unlikely from the start.

As modern divorce laws continue to evolve, a handful of state legislatures have decided that lifetime alimony awards are unfair, and have thus eliminated the practice.

Of course, these states still allow for hefty maintenance payments, whether they’re given in a lump sum or over the course of several years, but they’ve decided that automatic lifetime payments were no longer fair.

According to sources, the proposed Florida law mirrored elements of divorce rules that were recently passed in other states.

The bill would have set strict limits on both the amount of individual alimony awards and the length of their dispersal. In addition, it would have prevented alimony timetables from lasting longer than 50 percent of the length of the marriage.

Moreover, the bill would have made recovering alimony more difficult in short-term marriages, and, somewhat controversially, it would have required parents to have equal custody of their children under most normal circumstances.

Before vetoing the bill, Scott praised some of the “forward looking elements” of the bill, but he also expressed his belief that alimony “represents an important remedy for our judiciary to use in providing support to families as they adjust to changes in life circumstances.”

Scott also claimed he could not sign the bill “because it applies retroactively and thus tampers with the settled economic expectations of many Floridians who have experienced divorce.”

Finally, Scott further noted that divorce laws in Florida already allow alimony to be adjusted “under the proper circumstances.”

Interestingly, Scott’s veto undid the work of Florida’s House of Representatives and Senate, both of which passed the measure by strong majorities, as members of both major parties threw their support behind the measure.

And one local divorce attorney predicted that the bill would eventually appear again. “My assumption,” said Jason Marks, a local attorney, “is you haven’t heard the last of it.”

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April 24th, 2013

Proposed North Carolina Divorce Law Seeks Longer Wait for Divorce

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A bill circulating in the North Carolina Senate would force married couples to wait for two years before filing for divorce, according to a report this week from the Hickory Daily Record.

The proposed law, cleverly titled the “Healthy Marriage Act,” would extend the state’s mandatory waiting period before a divorce from one to two years, but it also adds several other layers designed to make divorce more difficult.

According to sources, the new divorce law would also force couples to attend counseling sessions and allow them to live together without suffering a penalty in order to work out their marital troubles.

To no one’s surprise, the bill has generated a fair amount of controversy in North Carolina, but its supporters swear by its potential efficacy.

Sen. Austin Allran, the bill’s sponsor, notes that his state has a “higher-than-average divorce rate,” but claims he doesn’t think that “residents of North Carolina are harder to get along with than people in other states.”

In other words, Allran believes the state’s relatively high divorce rate is a product of poor laws, not cultural trends, and he hopes the bill would change these statistics.

Sources say North Carolina has 3.8 divorces per 1,000 residents, a rate that is slightly above the national average of 3.4 divorces per 1,000 people.

In addition to the potential to reduce the state’s divorce rate, supporters of the bill also claim that it would help children, and it would also reduce the costs to the state that are often incurred as a result of divorce.

But opponents of the bill claim the proposal would set divorce laws back several decades, and note that such measures would be counterproductive at best.

According to Lisa Angel, a local divorce attorney, in 20 years of helping North Carolina clients, “I’ve never had a client ask for the waiting period to be longer.”

Angel also noted that “most clients have thought about this and agonized over this for years before they actually separate, so to extend that only causes more emotional and financial hardship for the family and children.”

Indeed, residents of North Carolina are already required to wait a year between their separation and a final divorce, in addition to meeting other regulatory hurdles that are common to family law disputes.

Opponents of the bill question whether the addition of an extra year to the waiting period would provide anything but headaches for families and courts alike.

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April 17th, 2013

Dove Real Beauty Sketches

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It is no secret that women are their own worst critics and Dove’s latest ad campaign speaks directly to that.

Regardless of who you are, or where you’re at in your life – a teenager in your formative years, a married woman, a woman going through a divorce, a divorced woman, a mother of 2, a mother of 6, a widow or a grandmother – it doesn’t matter.

Dove wants you to know that you are beautiful, more beautiful than you give yourself credit for. So, how did they do this?

Dove hired criminal sketch artist, Gil Zamora, to sketch 7 women, one at a time.

Zamora does not see the women as he sketches them. With a curtain separating him from the particular woman he is working with, Zamora essentially interviews each woman about their facial features. He sketches based on the descriptions they provide him.

Elsewhere the women chat with strangers who later sit with the sketch artist, the same way the women previously did, and they have similar, interview style discussions in which Zamora asks them about the stranger’s appearance and features, as he sketches.

After both sketches are completed, they are hung side by side and the woman is invited back to view them.

The difference between how the women view themselves in comparison to how they are viewed by strangers is clearly evident and often elicits an emotional reaction.

See the ad video on YouTube – Dove Real Beauty Sketches.

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March 27th, 2013

Will Same-Sex Married Couples Get Federal Benefits?

March 27, 2013
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Today the Supreme Court hears arguments relating to federal benefits for same-sex couples. The federal Defense of Marriage Act of 1996 (DOMA) refers to marriage as “only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife.”

The Supreme Court will meet to determine if how federal benefits are delegated under DOMA violates the equal protection clause of the Constitution.

The could rule in 3 ways:

  • DOMA is Unconstitutional.
  • DOMA is Constitutional.
  • The Supreme Court is powerless to decide on this case.

If the Act is deemed unconstitutional, all 9 states that allow the same-sex marriage, plus the District of Columbia, will be able to provide married same-sex couples federal benefits, as well as subject them to over 1,000 federal laws and programs.

If the Act is deemed constitutional, nothing changes. If nothing changes, same-sex couples who are married continue to be denied federal benefits.

The there is the possibility that the Supreme Court rules that it lacks jurisdiction because the Obama administration and the plaintiff in this case agree that it is an unconstitutional law and House Republicans can’t defend it.

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March 26th, 2013

Same-Sex Marriage – What is Our Constitutional Right?

March 26, 2013
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Today the Supreme Court hears arguments on California’s Ban on Same-Sex Marriage and whether it violates the Constitution. Proposition 8 which states that “only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California” was passed in November 2008.

Prior to that passing, same-sex couples had the Constitutional right to marry in California per In re Marriage Cases stating “California legislative and initiative measures limiting marriage to opposite-sex couples violate the state Constitutional rights of same-sex couples and may not be used to preclude same-sex couples from marrying.”

A ruling, which likely will not come until June, can go in one of three ways:

  1. The court could uphold Proposition 8. This would allow states to either allow or ban same-sex marriage as they choose.
  2. The court could strike down Proposition 8 on several grounds (see below).
  3. The court could decide supporters of Proposition 8 lack standing to appeal.

Grounds to Strike Proposition 8 Down?

  • Banning same-sex marriage is a violation of the Constitution.
  • California could not withhold the designation of “marriage” from same-sex couples while providing all of the benefits and burdens of marriage through a civil union.
  • After the California Supreme Court established the right to same-sex marriage, California was not entitled to withdraw the right.

There are currently 38 states banning same-sex marriage and 8 states allowing “everything-but-marriage” civil unions. (5 of those 8 states fall into both categories.)

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March 7th, 2013

Iowa Legislators Look to Eliminate ‘No-Fault’ Divorces from State Law

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Lawmakers in Iowa are bucking a modern trend and seeking to eliminate “no-fault” divorces, which have become an integral party of state family laws, according to a report this week from Radio Iowa.

According to sources, seven Republicans in the Iowa House of Representatives are looking to pass a bill that would restrict the ability of parents with minor children to file for a “no-fault” divorce, which does not require the parties to place the blame on one spouse or the other.

Traditionally, courts required couples to provide a reasonable reason for a divorce, which often led to more costly legal separations.

Today, however, all 50 states allow parties to file for divorce for reasons as simple as “irreconcilable differences.” Such faultless divorces are often cheaper, less contentious, and take a shorter period of time.

Several prominent lawmakers in Iowa, however, are worried that the potential effects of divorce on children should make divorce more difficult for couples with minor children.

According to Tedd Gassman, a Republican from Scarville, Iowa, courts should “look out for the children instead of constantly worrying about adults.”

One of Gassman’s constituents, Daren Clark, told reporters that “no-fault” divorces have “damaged thousands of families and their children” because they have created a “do what’s best for me” attitude among parents.

Under the terms of the proposed law, parents with minor children would have to prove that one spouse had committed adultery, been convicted of a felony, or had abused a family member in order to obtain a divorce.

Of course, this proposal, which goes against the trend of family law reform that has blossomed over the last 40 years, has been heavily criticized by many family law experts.

Many critics, for example, have noted that forcing a couple to stay together despite vast differences could ultimately be more harmful to the children, who would be forced to live in a contentious environment at home.

Indeed, other observers note that lowering obstacles to divorce can lead to more relaxed separations, which allow former spouses to craft child custody agreements in the spirit of cooperation, which is often better for children.

According to Rachel Scott, a member of the Iowa Coalition Against Domestic Violence, divorces in which fault must be determined often “escalate tension and conflict between two individuals.”

Nevertheless, Gassman and his colleagues remain convinced that “no-fault” divorces are a negative development, and they seem determined to push their bill through the Iowa House.

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March 4th, 2013

The World’s Strangest Marriages

Think traditional marriage has brought on some interesting partnerships? People have married themselves, inanimate objects, and even pets.

The legal aspects of these unusual marriages contain many unknowns, like what happens when you and your cat want to file for divorce? In this infographic, we’ll look at some of the strangest marriages in our recent history.

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Man Marries Himself

  • Chinese man named Liu Ye married a cardboard cutout of himself in 2007.
  • The wedding honored all Chinese traditions.
  • The cardboard cutout wore the traditional red wedding dress of a Chinese bride.

Woman Marries Herself

  • Artist Jennifer Hoes married herself to celebrate her 30th birthday.
  • The wedding was to help her embrace her own life.

Woman Marries the Eiffel Tower

  • A woman named Erika married the Eiffel Tower in 2008.
  • She changed her surname to “La Tour Eiffel.”
  • She suffers from Objectum-Sexuality: an emotional and often romantic attraction to inanimate objects.

Woman Marries the Berlin Wall

  • A woman named Eija-Riitta married the Berlin Wall in 1979.
  • She changed her surname to Berliner-Mauer (translates to “Berlin Wall” in German).
  • She suffers from Objectum-Sexuality.
  • She was distraught when the wall was torn down.
  • Now keeps replica models in her home.
  • Says the Great Wall of China is not as “sexy” as her husband.

Woman Marries Fairground Ride

  • A woman named Amy Wolfe married a fairground ride in 2008.
  • She suffers from Objectum-Sexuality.
  • Claims to have had sexual and mental attraction to the ride since she first saw it when she was 13.

Man Marries Game Character

  • A Japanese man who calls himself “Sal9000” married a video game character in 2009.
  • He married Nene Anegasaki from the Nintendo DS game Love Plus.
  • The wedding was broadcast on Nico Nico Douga, a Japanese video sharing website.

Man Marries His Cat

  • German postman Uwe Mitzscherlich married his cat in 2006.
  • He decided to marry her after learning she was sick and would die soon.
  • Held a formal wedding.
  • He wore a tux.
  • She wore a special bride’s gown.

Woman Marries a Dolphin

  • Sharon Tendler married her dolphin friend Cindy in 2006.
  • The ceremony takes place in Israel.
  • She becomes the first one to marry a dolphin.
  • She knew Cindy for 15 years before marrying him.
  • She used to think she might marry a human.
  • She has since decided that she will stay married to her dolphin.

Man Marries a Goat

  • Sudan law says a man caught sleeping with a woman must marry her immediately.
  • A man caught having sex with a goat was required to follow the law.
  • He married the goat in 2006.
  • He had to pay the owner a dowry as a part of his public humiliation punishment.

Man Marries His Pillow

  • Korean man Lee Jin-gyu married his pillow in 2010.
  • The pillow is large and features an image of Fate Testarossa.
  • She is a character from the anime series Mahou Shoujo Lyrical Nanoha.
  • The pillow was fitted with a wedding dress.
  • The ceremony was officiated by a local priest.

Man Marries His Doll

  • A man named Davecat married his love doll in 2000.
  • Featured on TLC’s My Strange Addiction.
  • Has not dated a real woman since he married the doll.
  • Says the doll has qualities “hard to find in an organic woman.”

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