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British Town Threatens French Counterpart with Divorce

In an effort to promote cultural understanding and international friendship, Wallingford, England, and Luxeuil-les-Bains, France agreed to become “twin” cities. That was thirty years ago. Since then, the relationship has soured, and now Wallingford wants out.

Wallingford Council officials report that its French counterpart has ignored requests for student exchanges, friendly soccer games and an annual Christmas card. The outgoing mayor, Alec Hayton, was blunter in an interview with Aaron O. Patrick and Max Colchester from the Wall Street Journal.

"I think they are extremely rude," Hayton says. "We send our monthly magazine. We never get a reply."

Wallingford, an Anglo-Saxon hub since 1066, when William the Conqueror kept a stronghold there, has not been historically comfortable with all things French. Their perception of Luxeuil has not improved over time.

Michel Raison, the recently elected mayor of the French town of 8,000, does not seem eager to smooth things over.

"Frankly, I had more important things to worry about after my election."

The mayor contends the Christmas card gesture was reciprocated but that he never received the town magazine.

The twin-town movement began in 1951, part of an effort to restore European goodwill after World War II. The organization’s governing body, the Council of European Municipalities and Regions, says there are now some 17,000 such relationships among the 100,000 towns and cities of Europe.

Wallingford and Luxeuil first got together in 1979, when a French scout troop got lost in England, and received friendly assistance in Wallingford. One of the scouts was the son of the town mayor, who began the relationship after hearing about the British hospitality.

The partnership has had its bright spots. The Wallingford brass band visited Luxeuil in 1990. There were some student exchanges. But by 2005, things had hit a rough patch. That year, the Wallingford Town Council invited their French counterparts to the 850th anniversary celebration commemorating the town’s charter, even offering free accommodations. Wallingford says Luxeuil did not RSVP one way or another.

After a brief effort at reconciliation over the past several years, the relationship has become deeply damaged. Invitations have been reportedly sent from both sides, but have been ignored or gone missing, depending on whose story you hear.

Mayor Hayton was the first to broach the subject of separation, announcing his intent at a city council meeting. The two cities began sniping at one another through their respective newspapers, and at one point, Hayton began inquiring about a separation with the European Union.

"If they wanted a divorce, they should have just called me," says Mayor Raison.

It may be just that simple.

According to Patrizio Fiorilli, a spokesperson for the Council of European Municipalities and Regions, "All they have to do is say, 'Shall we call it a day?'"

The two sides are currently in a holding pattern. Raison says most of Luxeuil’s residents wouldn’t care if the towns split, while Hayton says Wallingford has received multiple offers from other French communities. Still, Wallingford recently made another attempt at reconciliation, with Hayton writing Raison to apologize for all the publicity and request a fresh start. As a result, he received an invitation to a town event later this year.

No word on whether or not the Wallingford contingent has promised to attend. They may simply be keeping their options open.

Source: The Wall Street Journal


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